Use the following strategies to entertain and travel safely with your toddler.
Traveling by Car
When traveling with your toddler by car, strategies depend entirely upon the length of the trip. Your primary challenge when traveling greater distances (more than an hour) is keeping the toddler from getting bored. Carry plenty of books, small toys, music, food, and drink to help entertain the toddler. Additionally, plan on making pit stops every 1 to 2 hours (depending on your toddler’s state of mind). Get out of the car and stretch, and play for about 15 minutes at a time.
CAUTION: Never take the toddler out of his car seat while you are driving. Always come to a complete stop before removing the toddler from his seat.
Traveling by Airplane
When traveling by airplane with your toddler, you may be dealing with any range of preprogrammed emotions, including excitement, boredom, and anxiety. The longer the flight, the more likely you will have temporary outbursts to contend with. Consider the length of your flight and adjust your strategies accordingly.
Preparing for Travel
1. Book your flight with your toddler’s sleep schedule in mind. You may choose to fly at night so your toddler may sleep through most of the flight. However, if your toddler doesn’t fall asleep, he will be even more tired and irritable.
2. Fly nonstop, but during off-peak times. A midweek flight during the middle of the day is more likely to have open seats that will allow you to stretch out and provide more free space for your active toddler.
3. Check with your travel agent or airline to see if you can reserve the bulkhead, or front row, seats. These seats provide extra floor space and allow the toddler more room to move.
EXPERT TIP: Many airlines hold bulkhead seats until the day or even the hour of departure. Ask the attendant at the gate for the best seats possible.
4. Consider taking a car seat for your toddler to sit in on the plane. The seat can provide protection in case of turbulence, and your toddler will be in a familiar seat where he is accustomed to sitting for long periods, making him more likely to be better behaved and to fall asleep.
5. Plan for flight delays and layovers. Pack twice as many diapers and wipes as you think you’ll need, as well as an extra set of clothing and snacks.
6. Take a variety of snacks on the plane with you. Pack a small plastic container full of dry cereal, cheese sticks, crackers, cookies, and fruit snacks. Also bring an assortment of liquids.
7. Pack enough small, quiet toys to keep your toddler interested and busy. Bring a few favorite toys and books, as well as brand-new items that you can introduce on the plane. Gift wrap a couple of the new toys.
Day of Departure
1. Groom your toddler before the trip. Fellow passengers will be more sympathetic and willing to help you if your toddler is clean and cute.
2. Place an identifying bracelet on your toddler. Tag your toddler’s wrist with your name, destination, flight number, home address, and home phone and cell phone numbers.
3. Allow your child to expend energy before boarding the plane. Walk from the parking lot to the terminal, and take him for a walk around the airport.
4. Review the rules of the plane with your toddler before you arrive at the airport, when you enter, and again as you prepare to board. Some rules may include no kicking the seats, use an indoor voice, no jumping or running, and remain in the seat with a seat belt on when the seat belt sign is lit.
5. If you are traveling with another toddler owner, split up when the airline announces its preboarding procedures. One can enter the plane to secure the carry-on luggage and the car seat. The other can remain off the plane with the toddler to keep him moving around and occupied. Board the toddler at last call.
EXPERT TIP: Cabin pressure changes with the altitude during take off and landing, placing unequal pressure on your toddler’s ears. Chewing gum, sucking on a lollipop or a pacifier, or drinking juice from a sippy cup or straw may help alleviate the pressure.
